Is it possible to meet a girl on a dating site much younger than a British man

Meeting a girl 15-20 years younger is the secret dream of many mature British men. Someone is trying to fulfill their dream, while others do not make any attempts, because they believe that this is unrealistic.

So how are things really going? Let's look at what prospects exist for young girls' relationships with mature men from England. And is it worth counting on serious feelings from the girls or can you only meet with women who want to get money?

Psychological portrait of girls who want to date men much older than themselves

So, let's see if a young woman really wants to be in an intimate relationship with a man 20-30 years older than herself. If we turn to Sigmund Freud, then we will find a lot of materials from him that little girls under the age of 5 consider their father as a prototype of a future husband, a sexual partner.

Girls are looking for their father in their partner

In those families where little girls have not received adequate care from their father, they, as they grow up, transfer the expectation of this care to other men. Why didn't they get it?
- Maybe the father died early or left the family.
- The mother gave birth and raised her daughter herself.
- Or there was a father, but he paid little attention to education and communication with the child.

And now the expectation of that paternal love, affection, care that the girl did not receive in childhood, she will transfer to her sexual partner. And, naturally, this man must be older - about the age of her father.

Some girls are afraid to separate from their parents and live on their own.

The girls grew up in a wealthy family where the father decides everything and for everyone. She is so comfortable being in a family where her father:
- pays for everything ,
- creates a high level of comfort and safety,
- offers her such convenient life scenarios for her that the girl simply does not need to decide anything on her own.

It is very common to observe such families among Armenians, Azerbaijanis, Dagestanis and other peoples of the Caucasus. They can also be found among Spaniards or wealthy Arabs.

And now comes the period when the girl needs to get married. It is quite possible that the father himself will find her a groom and decide everything with their family. But if, for some reason, a girl suddenly has to look for a husband or life partner for herself, she will intuitively look for a man who looks like her father. And she will agree to a big age difference if this man can provide the financial level of comfort that this girl had up to this moment.

Can such girls independently register on a dating site and look for a husband there? Yes they can. After all, they want to show at least some independence, and it can result in just registration on the site. Another thing is that even if you like each other, you will still have to like her relatives and, especially, her dad.

We all tend to follow family scripts

Now in psychology, such a topic as family scenarios is being actively researched and developed. Often a girl repeats the fate of her mother, grandmother, aunt.

If these family scenarios have a negative impact on the fate of a person, then people go to psychologists for years, pay big money to break the chain of undesirable events. For example, the father or grandfather was a gambler - and the son (grandson) also has a gambling addiction. Or the mother married an alcoholic, and the daughter repeats her fate.

The same can happen with marriages when the wife is much younger than the husband. If such a relationship developed in the child's family, then it is quite possible that in her life she will have a chance to start and develop a relationship with a man who is much older than her.

We examined the main psychological types of girls who may be interested in a love relationship or in marriage with a man much older than themselves.

What qualities should a man have in order to attract girls much younger than himself?

Now let's look at the qualities of a man that can attract young girls.

A man must be financially wealthy

We have already said that girls subconsciously look for their father in a sexual partner or husband. And the father fully provided for the life of the little girl.

Therefore, if you want to keep a girl much younger than you next to you for a long time, be fully prepared:
- provide it financially,
- provide her with comfortable living conditions,
- invest in its development (education, self-improvement, career).
If you are willing to do all this for many years, a young girl will become a good wife or life partner for you.

A man should have an interesting destiny, a good career.

If you are much older than your girlfriend, then you must be between 35-40 years old. By this age, a man should already take place as a person, make a career, get rich life experience.

So, you are a person who has traveled half the world, they write about you in magazines and newspapers, you are a public person, you have great authority in your work environment.

You have the knowledge and skills that will be of interest to a young girl and she would like to learn from you.

Reliability in personal relationships

Young girls can choose men much older than themselves, because they believe that they will not cheat on them. You will completely pay attention only to her, and you will not have countless mistresses.

So, if you have the above qualities, then you have every chance to meet and fall in love with a young girl.